Your Holiday Guide for New Year's Resolutions
Million Dollar Body Newsletter StaffFor New Year's Day 2008, we didn't want to be guilty of letting auld acquaintances be forgot and never brought to mind. So we searched through our archives to bring you a selection of some of our most popular and inspirational articles over the years to help you make your resolutions stick in 2008. Let this be your holiday key to health and happiness. Enjoy.
10 Ways to a New You
Most of us make a resolution to somehow change ourselves for the better in the upcoming year. More often than not, this has to do with our health and leads to us making a resolution where we promise ourselves to get into better shape, improve our diet, or quit a habit that we think is hurting our health or well-being.
While this trend is great for us at Beachbody (or any health and fitness company), it's only a good thing if it's helpful to you. Unfortunately, the stats show that most of us won't see our resolutions through to next New Year's. Of course, you are an individual, not a stat. Whether or not you succeed is entirely up to you.
Our job is to make your path to health and fitness easier. So here are some tips to help you succeed on your New Year's makeover.
Feel free to change your resolution. After all, it's yours. You made it and you can change it. While New Year's resolutions are a great idea in theory, we tend to make them so difficult that most fail. It's the first week of the year and research tells us that the majority of people have already cheated on their resolution or given up on it altogether.
The main reason is difficulty. The average resolution aims high—really high. For example, let's look at the ubiquitous "I'm going to stop smoking." It's pretty easy to mess this one up and once you've cheated, it's very easy to give up. In fact, a case can be made that many resolutions are made too difficult on purpose because it makes it so much easier to stop trying. Instead, attempt a more holistic approach. Maybe your resolution is to stop smoking but throw in "by the end of the year." Now you've got an entire year to work toward a goal.
Make a plan. This is a big step, because given the above scenario, without a plan it's unlikely that you'll change anything in your lifestyle until the following December. Most of us can look at a calendar for the following year and come up with a decent idea about our schedule and what might work for us if we were, say, going to schedule an event as part of a resolution. Taking a minute to look at the upcoming year can give you a realistic sense of what you want to attempt.
Again, using quitting smoking as a goal, you might want to schedule some kind of healthy retreat where you can cleanse yourself, get healthy, etc., during the year. You'll need to know your schedule or, as we tend to do, you may find you've made something a goal that just happens to be the month you've got a lot of other obligations. Planning ahead will stack the odds in your favor. Then you can also plan the subsequent months leading up to it.
Remember the big picture. This one has to do with the fact that most resolutions are about self-improvement (or helping someone or something else improve). Some of the main resolutions we make are to quit a bad habit, change the way we look or feel, or become more educated. All of these things require our mind and body to change. And while it's possible to do a 100% turnaround at the strike of midnight, it's not very likely. Your chances for success will improve drastically if you use your brain and make a plan that allows for failure, plays to your strengths, and moves toward your overall goal in a way that makes it harder for you to quit than to keep going.
For example, again using our age-old quest, here's an idea that's focused on the big picture. Break the year into 12 months. For January, you might want to start with an exercise program because you know that the harder your body has to work physically, the less it craves cigarettes. So your entire first month might not actually address your ultimate goal directly. Instead, it can focus on something that you know will help you down the line.
Need more planning advice? Check this out . . .
10-Step New Year's Resolution Plan
Chances are, everyone reading this article has made a New Year's resolution—but have you ever met anyone who has actually achieved what they set out to do? Well, this year, that person will be you, if we at Million Dollar Body have anything to say about it! We've come up with 10 steps to help you follow through and find success in the new year.
- Choose a resolution that suits you. Don't be swayed by peer pressure or trends. For example, if you hate swimming, why would you choose the Escape from Alcatraz triathlon? Go with a goal that's right for you.
Be realistic. The most common mistake is to shoot for the moon—aiming your sights far too high, and thereby setting yourself up for failure. Be fair to yourself: Assess what you've been able to achieve in the past, and work off of this baseline. The primary example of this is the ubiquitous, "I'm going to quit smoking," a resolution that tends to get blown off—literally—during the latter stages of a New Year's Day hangover. Make a more reasonable pledge, such as "I'm going to cut down each month with the goal of quitting by the end of the year."
- Make a single resolution. We all have many aspects we'd like to improve, but don't try and take them on all at once. Focus on one major goal. If you're succeeding come mid-year and want to add something else, that's great. January isn't the only time you can set goals for yourself.
Click here for seven more tips for your New Year's resolution plan.
And we all know how hard it is keeping those resolutions amidst the holiday stress . . .
Stress, the Holidays, and Christmas Cheer
During the holidays, your life is extra stressful, which for some of us can ruin the most festive time of the year. Stress can lead to more than dreaded holiday weight gain. It disrupts our ability to function at work, messes with our moods, and can upstage the things around us for which we should be grateful. It demands attention. And with attention, stress gains power in what can become a vicious cycle of reacting to stress and building on it. But we needn't be a slave to it. By addressing the issue with a proactive mind-set, we can head stress off at the seasonal pass.
The common lore is that extra vitamins and minerals will solve the problem. After all, you can buy "stress tabs" at most any market. But according to the American Dietetic Association (ADA), "It's a common myth that our bodies use more nutrients when we're under mental stress. Although pressures at home or work sometimes cause people to neglect to eat well, we do not use any more or fewer essential nutrients while under stress." So your first tip should be to eat well over the holidays. Hmm . . . more easily said than done.
Click here for some healthy tips for beating holiday stress.
Next year I'm going to lose that extra weight. Sound familiar?
A 10-Point Plan for Holiday Diet Success
Good ol' "holiday cheer" doesn't always leave you feeling cheerful, especially when you can't fit into your little black dress for New Year's Eve. Here's a simple 10-step plan to make your New Year's something to celebrate. Let's start with the big picture and then count down toward a healthy new year.
10. Visualize. Your first step won't take long. In fact, do it right now, before reading step 9. Close your eyes for a moment and visualize yourself in a place you want to be sometime next year. This is a fantasy, so make it a good one. Imagine looking and feeling a way you've always dreamed you could. Now hold on to that vision.
9. Target an event for next year. Think of something to focus on as a day for looking and/or feeling and/or performing your best. It can be anything from a class reunion to a triathlon to a trip to Cancun. Your goal is to find something to look forward to that will motivate you to improve between now and then.
8. Plan a training program. Begin by finding a monthly calendar and figure out how much time you have until your event. Next, make a loose training program. You don't have to decide exactly what to do right now. Maybe start with progress you'd like to make each month leading to the event. Then either pick an exercise program (or series of programs) that will help you achieve your goals over that time.
Be realistic. It might be difficult for you to focus on exercise and diet through the holidays, so you might want to schedule yourself a bit of flexibility for now. At this point, your aim is to plant a seed in your mind to keep you focused on a bigger goal as you go through the holidays. This little extra bit of motivation will be enough to keep your holidays from becoming one long binge.
Click here to get some more tips for battling the bulge in 2008.
And since the number one resolution is still to quit smoking, let's add a little fuel to that fire . . .
Motivate Yourself to Quit Smoking
We shouldn't smoke and we know it. No one needs to tell us how bad it is, we know that too. So why do so many of us who want to quit fail? The answer is motivation.
If you want something badly enough you will usually find a way to get it. Every day people quit smoking. What makes some able to and others not is motivation. Usually it comes from a sense of urgency: an illness, a scary report from your doctor, a loved one getting sick, etc. But you know it would be much better if you could stop today, as in right now. This could be the extra motivation you need.
Click here to get motivated to sack the pack.
Finally, failure isn't an option for us at Beachbody and Million Dollar Body®. Once you've blown all those well-laid plans, here's how to fix them . . .
Resolution Resurrection
Your New Year's resolution is a distant memory, and it's less than a quarter of the way into the year. Statistics show that most of us let life in the "real world" get in the way of all those great notions we had as last year came to a close. Those ideas that "next year is going to be different" have already been laid to waste. But it's not too late to do something about it. New Year's Resolutions have no rules. They are simply a motivational tool to help improve yourself in the upcoming year. Well, you've still got more than nine months left! And if you're like many people and your resolution was to look great this summer, that's not out of reach either.
Here are a few tips to help you get back on the horse. Summer's over 90 days away, and at Million Dollar Body, we've seen that is plenty of time to change your life.
Click here for more ways to save your New Year's resolution later in the year.
Happy New Year! Here's to a fabulous 2008!
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