Isn't it ridiculous the amount of money made by rich people ... or is it?
From the book Secrets Of The Millionaire Mind by T. Harv Eker, 17 Ways Rich People Think, I’ll present one nugget a week with… a following thought by yours truly. Here's nugget 1.
1. Rich people believe, "I create my life." while poor people think "Life happens to me."
Before I get to my point on Creating A Life, let me share with you a page from my life to shed a little light on this..
I grew up around a smorgasbord of races and economic conditions. My dad was a hard working man while mom was Suzy Homemaker. We lived a middle class lifestyle in one of Chicago's up and coming southern suburbia communities. My parents made sure we went to better than average schools. Our elementary education in that socio-economic environment ran from the 1st to the 6th grade.
Well, like many parents during the 60's they got caught up in the divorce trend, when pot, rock music and free "love" (and the prof. was right ... there is NO free lunch ... nor "Free love"!) was on the rise. Wouldn't you know it, my parents bought into that hook, line and sinker. The Bible calls it the sins of the fathers. My dad's dad as well as my mom's dad had extra marital "affairs". The bible calls it "adultery".
I know ... I know! You're wondering what in the world does all that have to do with Creating A Life vs Life Happens. Well, I'll get to that in a minute. Let's finish the story.
After the divorce, my mom ended in up rehab for drugs and my dad was prevented through the legal system from seeing us. So the only place the state could put 8 young boys was a group home or foster care. We were blessed because we spent little less than 8 hours in a group home and were immediately placed in foster homes. Because foster homes had limits to the number of kids and age was also a factor, we were separated into different homes. The homes we were placed in were located in the inner city and believe me, the families, the homes, communities and the schools we experienced were a far cry from the schools we were accustomed to.
NOW, here's the point behind the story.
You see the picture of me standing behind the Eiffel Tower? At that time in my life being bounced from foster home to foster home, going to Paris was the furthest thing from my mind. It took more than 15 years to wash the "Life happens to me" junk out of my head, and replace it ... maybe the best word is "Dilute" ... yeah, that's it ... to dilute. Its like have a cup of mud and taking a gallon of fresh rain water and pouring it into the cup until all you see is some residual of the mud that was once there.
I could have easily adopted the victim mentally, and I did for awhile, but that has changed.
So how did I change that? I read ... I read ... and I read. I shut off the idiot boxes (TV and Radio) and embraced a new habit - Reading!
What did I read? Being a follower of Jesus, I read Proverbs, the Psalms, and the great stories from the bible that gave me hope and inspiration. I added to that Napoleon Hill's, Think and Grow Rich, Dale Carnegie's, How to Win Friends and Influence People, Paul Zane Pilzer's, God Wants You to Be Rich, Robert Kiyosaki's, Rich Dad Poor Dad and a host of others. I could say I was a slow reader and learner. After all ... why would it take me 15 years to read just a few books to get my mind right!
So, reach for higher ground. Ask for the Master's help. The bible says that God searches throughout the earth to find someone to show himself strong to. Ask for His help today. He created you in His image and has given you special gifts for His marvelous work. And since we are ... notice the word, "created" in His image, do we not also possess that same ability to create?
Now, go and create you life!
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