We all have our own way of bringing in the New Year. For me, it's about letting go and making room. I call it my Top Ten Things Tradition. It's a great way to clear your life of things you don't want anymore to make room for the things you do want. Each year I get a piece of paper and cut it up into 20 small slips to write on. I take ten of them and write Ten Things I want to let go of from the previous year. So I look back at 2011 and think about things that didn't serve me, or that I simply don't want to repeat, and write them down, one at a time on each slip of paper. Then I think about 2012 and how I want this New Year to unfold. I take the other 10 slips of paper and write down the things I want more of, or the new dreams I want to see unfold. I try to keep both lists focused on my life...which can be hard because I so often times want things for others...but this is a personal list, and it serves best if I keep it that way. Then...at some point on January 1st, I find a way to let go of the Top Ten Things from 2011 in a special way. I've burned them one by one in a beautiful fire, or let them disolve in a candle fire. A couple of years I went to my favorite stream and let them go there, or in the ocean (biodegradable paper is used). The letting go and watching the things I don't want any more disolve was wonderful and liberating. Then I keep the ten things for the new year in a special keepsake box. That way I can visit the box as the year unfolds and enjoy the fulfillment of watching them unfold.
To some, this may be a strange way to bring in the New Year, but for me it's now a Tradition I look forward to . I've always shared it with families as a wonderful activity to do together. It allows a special time of sharing that often doesn't happen in everyday life.
I leave this with you with love and sincere wishes that 2012 brings you all your dreams come true. ~Milan